There You Go!

The line between courting and pestering is really based on the signals she's giving you. It's really key to read between the lines and too much for one woman may be just enough for another.

The true test here is: are you really paying attention to her? And if you are, you won't have to worry about pestering her because you are giving her just what she needs.

Keep us posted on Rachelle!

Hi Simon,
I would like to thank You for Your kind visit and comment.
Interesting question about women :-)
Good luck!
Read You soon
alex

If I were you, I'd find some fun things I really wanted to do and ask her to join me. That way if she said no, I could find someone else or go by myself, and if she said yes, we could hopefully have a good time!

Good luck!

Good luck, Dude! As a gay guy, I really don't have any advice about women. :o)

Thanks for your very kind comments at my Blog of the Grateful Bear. I've added you to my blogroll, under Cyberfriends in the Blogosphere. Very interesting blog - and I love the self-confident name you've given yourself!

Hi there. Thanks for your comment about my blog.

Your blog is an interesting read as well and your perspective is refreshing and honest.

I enjoyed watching the Whitney Houston interview...hadn't seen that before.

Take care. :D

Wow. How refreshing it is to read your blog, your thoughts and your prowesses. So what did she respond with, by the way?

Anon

P.S.
Thanks for stopping by http://pennypotboiler.blogspot.com.

Be patient, be kind, take your time. I know I need to do that myself.

If you worry too much about what you think she wants or where to take things and at what pace, you will miss out on what truly could be... you cant have the best if you dont be yourself. She either likes you for you or you both will end up being miserable.
Be you! I am sure with the way you talk about her that if you treat her the same she will be yours soon enough

im with kickenchica...just be urself, go with the flow..

I think we all might benefit from taking one step back and remember what we're looking for in a relationship. Do you want your other half?

I finally realized I wanted someone who would help me complete the equation 1 + 1 = 3. Does that make sense? Once realized, it allowed me to just be me.

I stopped "selling" and started "considering buying options". Subtle distinction, but it can make all the difference in the world.

I'm a new fan Simon. I wish you the best and look forward to keeping up on your world.

Best, he gay

If you use a cookie cutter method you get a cookie cutter woman....and who wants that

I've enjoyed your blog Simon! Rachelle is a lucky girl to have your focus drawn towards her. You seem like a sweet, sincere, and sensitive man (yes, you are a man...even if you don't join the army!). What attracted me to my husband was his slight awkwardness and nervousness (he mentioned to my little sis months prior to meeting me that he was interested), and definitely his funny stories of past events when he was the butt of the joke. Pretty much, he was himself without putting on a front and that's what got me! Just do what you feel and I'm sure it will work out. It's too early now to try to fill her romantic dreams, that will come in the next few months! Best of luck and I look forward to reading how it goes with Rachelle.

I want respect, honesty, commitment and dedication. I don't like to be compared to other women even in jest. I don't want to be stereotyped, visually or otherwise, as a type of woman but to be seen as an individual human being. Respect means listening to what I say and not letting the ego rule thoughts and actions. I don't like machismo, I don't want romance--I want equality, not infatuation where one is stronger and more dependent on the other.

I am dying from suspense!
What will happen with you two?! Will you meet?
Inquiring minds want to know! (Are you familiar with that line from the National Enquirer? It's part of American pop culture. Is it also part of world pop culture?)

Be available, but not too available.

Just be yourself. If it's the right girl....anything you do will be pleasing ;)

Of course, I've been married for 21 years and my husband has lost every ounce of romance he ever had, so wtf do I know? LOL

hmmm...

call to see how her day was

call to say hi

but not too often

then desperation shows

until you've become serious

then call a lot

(unless Rachelle

needs space)

check the air in her tires

be there if she needs to talk

listen

be willing to kick the ass

of anyone who does her wrong

but never hers

women should never be afraid of you

they should feel safe

protected

and cherished

but not controlled

Whoever said it was gonna be easy?

That's just a glimpse into my fairy tale prince. Bet there's a lady out there who disagrees.

Solo podemos dar aquello que tenemos, ni más ni menos... Creo que no vinimos a este mundo a complacer a nadie sino a ser felices... Entonces dá lo que tienes y si ella lo entiende pues seran felices, y a la inversa tambien... Saludos