Honesty With A Spin
It has been a while since my last post on this blog. This is because I have been busy with other interests lately, such as setting up two other web sites, starting my graduation paper, college, and many others.
At the same time, this 'pause of blogging' allowed me to win time. My room mate (who is said to abuse any personal information for blackmailig other people) found out the url of this blog. Certainly, I would not like him to diffuse cherry-picked information of it; and I am unsure whether to believe his promise that he won't pass around the url.
This is not what I wanted. Blogging only makes sense to me if I need not fear any disclosure of my most personal thougths and feelings. The reason for me to blog is to put my thoughts into order and to get feed-back from people who understand them. Certainly, I do not want to run the risk of being blackmailed, defamed, or ... We all have thoughts and feelings that we don't want to share with everybody, right?
But then, things with my room mate suddenly changed a short while ago. There has been an issue with him that allows me to feel at ease; in the very meaning of it. Wonder why?
My room mate is a boarderline person. Not so much in the psychiatric meaning of it, but most certainly in the eye of the law. Yes folks, my dear friend who's lived with me for more than three years is involved in illegal activites on the web. Now, what does this mean for me? Several options for me arise from the fact:
#1: Do what the three wise monkeys would: see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil
#2: Fear. Fear all. Fear that I will be made responsible for this.
#3: Become active and bring justice into his life
#4: Blackmail him. Either on a fixed or on a percentage basis. Monthly. In cash.
The list of choices that he implicitely presents me with is stupendous. I need not fear his 'blabbing out' my blog. Oh no.
Somehow this all reminds me of Tina Turner's song "better be good to me" from the mid-70's -- anybody remember?
May the posting and commenting continue!



3 Responses to Honesty With A Spin
Dear Brawny Hunk,
I was very concerned with why we had not heard much from you lately, but I preferred to attribute it to a lot of studying in preparations for the end of the semester! I hope you are satisfied with your course results.
I am so dismayed to read that your roommate is creating a difficult situation for you - have you told no one close to you about it?! This is from the voice of a person old enough to be your parent, so naturally I worry a little about you. :-)
I would wish for you to be happy, and content, brawny hunk, at this pivotal and important time in your life.
Please contact the police if you need to - do not believe that things in Zurich go largely unreported - even if that's true. You seem to have promise for a future career in business (and perhaps law?).
Must I fly over to make sure things are okay with you?! Ha ha. You worry me, intrigue me, and I want to make sure your interesting life goes on as is without significant interruption!
Call me if you want, or email.
I will send that info to you privately.
You do realise you can actually change the url of your blog, right?
In, say, 3 seconds.
@ribonuff: thank you very much for your lovely comment and e-mail. i will write back to you in personal as soon as i have more time
@judith: i thought about changing urls as well. in fact, when i went from nastypredator.blogspot.com to brawnyhunk.blogspot.com i believed i was anonymous again. however, it seems my dear friend found the blog by searching for specific 'phrases' or words at google.com :-(
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