tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post3764059141180084247..comments2010-10-13T04:35:38.480+02:00simonnoreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-65494405939508225672010-06-25T16:37:24.908+02:002010-06-25T16:37:24.908+02:00To be a good benign being is to have a philanthropic of openness to the world, an cleverness to trust undeterminable things beyond your own pilot, that can front you to be shattered in unequivocally exceptionally circumstances as which you were not to blame. That says something remarkably outstanding with the get of the ethical compulsion: that it is based on a conviction in the uncertain and on a willingness to be exposed; it&#39;s based on being more like a shop than like a jewel, something kind of feeble, but whose extremely item attractiveness is inseparable from that fragility.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-18704992611081571512007-12-21T01:05:00.000+01:002007-12-21T01:05:00.000+01:00When I see a girl like that, I feel glad that I, myself am no longer so consumed in such vices as shopping and fake-tanning. And spending $5 on a shitty cup of coffee because it's a known fact that Starbucks is hipper than Little Red Roaster.<BR/><BR/>She is a beautiful girl. Chic, yes, but smart? I'm not saying she couldn't be. But if we're talking about making assumptions here, what about her makes you assume she's smart?Margeaux St.Croixhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01539748024991795772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-41672850617726935652007-09-23T08:09:00.000+02:002007-09-23T08:09:00.000+02:00Hi simon, thanks for the comment and encouragement. And sure u can add my link ;) <BR/><BR/>As to what a girl thinks about a guy - Some girls go for a guy who sweeps them off their feet, some like the really rich and as for me, I like guys who are honest and sincerely nice.<BR/><BR/>cheers!nichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04250778364862651113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-44110028982120720882007-09-21T20:53:00.000+02:002007-09-21T20:53:00.000+02:00HI! Thanks for leaving your comment on my blog. I have read some of yours and intend on reading more, very interesting. I recently flew throug your country on my way home from Spain. Wish I could have stayed longer instead of jogging through the airport and jumping on another plane for the states.All About D&amp;Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08564603283276955475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-2327688739929619542007-09-21T01:52:00.000+02:002007-09-21T01:52:00.000+02:00I agree with some of the others... she looks too high maintenance for me.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for stopping by my place! You got a link from me!Ralphd00dhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05539573384487866740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-72404454855760805172007-09-21T00:33:00.000+02:002007-09-21T00:33:00.000+02:00Thanks for the comments! I have enjoyed your insights as well!! I'll definitely re-visit!!<BR/><BR/>To answer your question .. girls think the same things when they see a foxy guy. :)Manhattan by way of Mayberryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10155562694078984904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-27714538568044862712007-09-21T00:26:00.000+02:002007-09-21T00:26:00.000+02:00Hey there swiss army man. Thanks for the intriguing comment. I always wanted to ski the Alps, but I never met a real swiss before.<BR/><BR/>Some insight, life is short, marriage is long, so don't rush into any relationship. Be yourself, and you'll find the right one for you. Women just want someone who's comfortable and confident in who they are, not who a woman wants them to be, well, okay, as long as you don't have some serious mental illness that could use some healing. :D. Besides we all change and grow everyday, so love with someone who makes you a better man, not a different man.<BR/><BR/>So who exactly is this neighbor girl of yours? I'll have to catch on my reading around here.<BR/><BR/>Come back soon.<BR/><BR/>-Aprilthe Precocious girl Fridayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09373623146756910816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-80760577399800117182007-09-20T23:48:00.000+02:002007-09-20T23:48:00.000+02:00Hmm...character, looks, or money...are they mutually exclusive options?!<BR/><BR/>It would probably be better to ask her as an individual than simply to ogle and conjecture. In my personal experience, people who are interested are always the people who are interesting. If you are alive with interest, engaged in the world, genuinely wanting to get to know her, then you will be attractive enough, no matter your looks or money. <BR/><BR/>Thanks for posting on my blog. Your name, I must admit, was a little off-putting, but your blog is definitely less shallow than the title.amy katherinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09093049389343623058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-70330862733626583802007-09-20T23:25:00.000+02:002007-09-20T23:25:00.000+02:00She, too, would look for someone who is only a bit mysterious and mostly sure of himself. A smile, and unbroken eye contact (do not let your eyes misbehave!), while saying "hi" works miracles-- even on the most gorgeous babes. A guy walking a really cute and friendly dog (even if you have to borrow one) is also a great door opener. Just be prepared to follow a brief chat through whatever open door there is, with an offer for coffee right away, or later. <I>She</I> won't offer; you'll have to ask.<BR/><BR/>Trust me, everyone is quite human, and almost everyone needs more friends! <BR/>:-)<BR/><BR/>I commented on your comment over at my blog, but thought I'd better say hi here, in case you didn't see it over there. Hi!JustMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07078911947881458502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-34176868695302496592007-09-20T20:30:00.000+02:002007-09-20T20:30:00.000+02:00Beautiful, chic and smart... it may be that the wrong image has been posted? But tastes, of course, do differ. <BR/><BR/>To me this person is decidedly average, has no concept of sartorial matters, and "smart" cannot be referring to her intellectual powers, which she clearly lacks, seeing that she is about to cross the street whilst staring at her field telephone screen: quite dangerous.<BR/><BR/>One man's meat is, again, another man's poison, but what goes through my mind is: “Oh no, another woman who eats and drinks in public, another shining example of mass culture under whose foot a manhole is sadly covered… now where on earth is my valet…”<BR/><BR/>Yours devotedly.Mr Saulshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14599037286605980449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-64643459647502021672007-09-20T20:06:00.000+02:002007-09-20T20:06:00.000+02:00I have to agree with lj: confidence is it. But let me make the distinction: CONFIDENCE, not arrogance. He has to be comfortable being himself (despite what people think), kind (the golden rule!) and respectful. I guess character is pretty important. Looks can attract a person, but if he's a jerk, that's a super-turn off. <BR/><BR/>Btw, thanks for the note on the blog! And I hope you and Rachelle get together (you seem like a great guy from your blog).Raenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-67862286378052188932007-09-20T20:03:00.000+02:002007-09-20T20:03:00.000+02:00Well these days - if I still looked gorgeous - I'd be thinking, "Does he look like VIncent D'Onofrio?" I'm really shallow.valhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08784717652044574470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-48959974414513805162007-09-20T19:53:00.000+02:002007-09-20T19:53:00.000+02:00thanks for the comment simon. i definitely want to look around when i have more time - i'm slammed at work today. i will link you to my blog though...thanks for visiting :)Butterflyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09707564356641101351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-48146823695186581242007-09-20T19:20:00.000+02:002007-09-20T19:20:00.000+02:00Hmmm... hope you can bear another comment. Just realized you asked what a woman [i]like her[/i] wants in a man. I am most decidedly not a woman like her.<BR/><BR/>My gut? She's into looks and money. But I'm operating off of a stereotype.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for letting me clarify.Geminipenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16925294463372022901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-71863276680090218422007-09-20T19:02:00.000+02:002007-09-20T19:02:00.000+02:00Character -- 70%<BR/><BR/>Looks -- 25%<BR/><BR/>Money -- 5%<BR/><BR/>Honesty is number one, along with everything that comes with it. Respect, compassion, responsibility. Can we even have one of these without the others?<BR/><BR/>And let's be honest. Looks matter. I'm not talking drop dead gorgeous. But at least be able to look the person in the eye without sensing any nausea. Unless it's a case of "beggars can't be choosers." Then, well... Even then, who am I to judge? The ugly couples have someone and I don't.<BR/><BR/>Money -- I don't care if you're rich, but you damn well better be doing your part to make sure our household stays afloat and is comfortable. Unemployed adult guys are losers (unless they've been laid off. Even then they'd better be looking hard.)Geminipenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16925294463372022901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-45067124945209000422007-09-20T18:40:00.000+02:002007-09-20T18:40:00.000+02:00I can tell you what I'm not looking for.<BR/><BR/>A guy like the one on the street yesterday, who was older than my father, and decides to shout at me, "Hey, nice rack!"<BR/><BR/>He was good for one thing, though, which is getting a chance to be a real New Yorker, as I responded, "Fuck off, asshole."<BR/><BR/>xo<BR/>Miss SMiss Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14652410712633789580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-10467660660794975062007-09-20T18:17:00.000+02:002007-09-20T18:17:00.000+02:00Thanks for your visit, Simon!!! That was a pleasant surprise because usually those who read mine are Venezuelan.<BR/><BR/>What do beautiful, classy ladies look for in a man??? Well... I can only speak for myself: someone who can UNDERSTAND US!!! However, since Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, that's not always easy to get...<BR/><BR/>God Bless!!!La Igualadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06361694857705409729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-86272703240812170392007-09-20T17:45:00.000+02:002007-09-20T17:45:00.000+02:00Yes to all three!Valley Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15158913213370365624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-71785666976125461102007-09-20T17:31:00.000+02:002007-09-20T17:31:00.000+02:00The difference between Me at 22 (15 years ago) and Me at 37 (now), is that I still drool over that girl. Especially at the beach, but I don't even have the slightest desire to "hit on" her. Even if she wasn't out of my league.<BR/><BR/>But I have no desire to do anything further; talk to her; chase her; date her, etc. I've had enough experience in life now to know that there are women who are not "painfully hot", but even so quite pretty enough for attraction to be there in spades, but who are everything else I want in a friend, a partner, and a lover. <BR/><BR/>That list of things I want includes: (a) a kind and gentle heart, (b) a brain the size of a planet, (c) an adventurous spirit; willing to try strange food, watch foreign movies, and explore life with me, and (d) most importantly, does she share my moral/religious views. If I have all that, then we could make a life together.<BR/><BR/>I want one woman, to have a profound relationship with, that lasts the rest of my life.<BR/><BR/>Nevertheless, I'm pretty much still the same, from a hard-wired biological point of view. If I see a woman, maybe a LITTLE more curvy than the one you've shown, I'm pretty much a drooling idiot. It's actually kind of painful and embarrassing how much it unhinges me. And at 37, I'm old enough to be that 17 year old hottie's father.<BR/><BR/>WarrenUltraCrepidarianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04053407632823479165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-19854173861378079692007-09-20T16:14:00.000+02:002007-09-20T16:14:00.000+02:00They all want they´re own subjectivly personal fairytail prince.Dvhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10480958039606239556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-45869667799731290252007-09-20T15:45:00.000+02:002007-09-20T15:45:00.000+02:00Thanks for dropping by my place. :-)<BR/><BR/>What would a guy think? WOn't they get petrified? You now it's going to cost you big bucks maintenance alone. lol<BR/><BR/>What would a woman look for? You got the sequence right. Without character, then looks. No looks? Then money is the next best thing.Helenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00825794367899454397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-13000767280105894452007-09-20T15:38:00.000+02:002007-09-20T15:38:00.000+02:00This may come across totally wrong but here goes. As a woman that has been married for 12 years, if I were to get married for a second time it would be to someone that would treat me like a princess (totally opposite of what I have now). To elaborate on this, I will say that I would want someone that would listen to me or rub my shoulders after a hard day. Money is not a big deal and as far as looks go, it truly is whats on the inside.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for stopping by and commenting on my blog. I'll be checking back here regularly!Danahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06694506024825501859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-2488323362313280212007-09-20T15:26:00.000+02:002007-09-20T15:26:00.000+02:00Hey there....thanks for stopping by my blog! I have some reading to do here to but so far I am enjoying what you write :) Interesting stuff. I'll be back! :)Chellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02907925774829898653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-32546553920612322332007-09-20T15:18:00.000+02:002007-09-20T15:18:00.000+02:00hi simon, pay u a visit..<BR/><BR/>Character - I just want a man who is loyal and treat me nicely, which I already have. <BR/><BR/>Looks - nah... not important as long as he's nice to look at and clean<BR/><BR/>Money - as long as he pays the bills and give me a treat once in a while...<BR/><BR/>from,<BR/>MistyMistyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00509911243854653550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6154782687412938351.post-85642253608434864122007-09-20T15:08:00.000+02:002007-09-20T15:08:00.000+02:00There's a joke along this line, that has different variations, but goes like this version:<BR/><BR/>A man is dating three women and wants to get married. He has to decide which one to ask. He gives them each $1000. The first one spends $800 on clothes and puts the other $200 in<BR/>the bank. The second one spends $200 on clothes and puts the $800 in the bank. The third puts the whole $1000 in the bank. <BR/><BR/>Which one does he marry? <BR/><BR/>The one with the biggest tits.bradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12145316476497223565noreply@blogger.com